Monday, March 21, 2016

Return to the Garden- How Every Choice Matters

Return to the Garden- How Every Choice Matters




Our modern world is plagued with a moral crisis that is unraveling our societal stability little by little, day by day.  This problem is not unique to the modern world, it is a problem which mankind has been dealing with since Adam and Eve fell from grace in the garden.  The fundamental changing of our relationship with God and creation set about a turn of events that we struggle with to this day. In the garden, Adam and Eve turned inward on themselves, embracing a selfishness and pride that caused a rift not just between themselves and God, but within themselves.  In analyzing our moral state, it becomes clear that a disconnect within ourselves is at the root of our culture of death and the means of repairing this culture is by understanding our corporeal and immaterial make up and embracing a path of return toward the good in which we were created. 

“Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness” (Genesis, 1:26 RSV).  From the moment of creation man was imprinted with an image of the Triune God.  Unlike the rest of creation, mankind was neither purely corporeal, nor purely immaterial.   Instead mankind was made to inhabit this physical world in a unique way; carrying the image of God.  This corporeal and spiritual joining is a unique part of creation found only in man.  It is what makes us who we are, and unfortunately a rupture in the balance of our relationship between rational will and our physical emotions is what has led to both our fracture with God and with each other.   This fracture is the fruit of a prideful view of self.  As Adam and Eve chose their own knowledge and feelings over God’s command, so to lies the base for all our sins.   

Through the fall, the relationship between man and women was changed forever.  This fracture ripples through all human relationships since that time. “An adversarial stance develops between the two, which frequently plays out as domination on the part of the man and manipulation on the part of the woman.  Man and woman cannot be human without each other, yet each is tempted to selfishly strive for self promotion and self protection to the detriment of the other” (Healy, 36).  When man and woman acknowledge their selfish weakness and strive to move toward charity toward each other; placing each others needs above their own, a move toward holiness occurs. Each small move in this direction moves mankind into the direction of redemption God desires for us. 

God has revealed the truths in a Trinitarian way to us.  He has written them on our hearts.  He has revealed them through the Word, and it is demonstrated through the love that flows in charity when one follows the Word and God’s moral truth that is written on our hearts.    The Theology of the Body returns us to a right ordering of things.  It allows us to look outward at our spouse instead of inward on ourselves.    When this perspective switches it becomes a catalyst for change in the very fabric of society; the family.   As the family changes, so too does the culture. It is important for the world to be equipped with a real understanding of what it means to love sacrificially and to give oneself for another.  In embracing this truth we can rescue the culture from its descent into despair, death and selfish ambition.  

Today, we see tragedy around us.  A disregard for human life, for the poor, the vulnerable, and the marginalized.  We see a loathing of the goodness of God and a mockery of religion.  At the same time we see a hunger for more, a culture that is searching for the good, but is looking in the wrong places.  Too often our culture is looking for its fulfillment in the individual.  This gravitates toward an over embellishment of the physical.  We seek pleasure and comfort but our desires continue unappeased.   The divorce between our spiritual lives and our corporeal lives leaves a gaping hole that can only be filled once we allow both to flourish in harmony together.  Dismissal of the spiritual as unnecessary is the ultimate root of our suffering. We are not meant to be purely physical creatures, nor purely rational creatures. “In this perspective, ‘man is neither his body nor his soul,’ but the composite that results from the union of soul and body. And ‘since it is a matter of an animated body, we must not speak either of priority or posteriority; there is absolute simultaneity, since indeed the animated body coincides with the incarnate spirit.’The soul is doubtless the more noble part, by virtue of its spiritual nature created by God. But it is not a complete substance existing by itself” (Torell, 256).  Indeed, it is a right order to the disconnect in our culture between body and soul that can bring about lasting and flourishing change in the human condition. Through an acknowledgment of this disconnect, and further discovery of a pathway to the good in a pursuit of holiness, man can find his way to the redemption of the world God has destined for us. In time, God will redeem us to a place like it was in the beginning in the garden, when man will be perfectly united soul and body with his Creator. 

God in his great mercy, has imprinted on our hearts the truth which leads to Him and a pathway to holiness in which our purpose can be fulfilled.  This is the reality of which we have come, and the destiny for which we endure.   We must embrace this truth in our own families; turning from selfishness, and allowing ourselves to submit to our spouse in love and modeling of Christ and the Church. In this relationship, our “charity….rules over all the means of attaining holiness and gives life to these same means. It is charity which guides us to our final end. It is the love of God and the love of one's neighbor which points out the true disciple of Christ” (Lumen Gentium 42). Our families can act as the seed from which societal change can grow and flourish and mankind can begin to be redeemed into the creation from which we were designed. It is charity toward others which demonstrates discipleship of Christ, and this form of discipleship is the embodiment of the image of God in which our immaterial soul and physical body are perfectly displaying God’s goodness to the world.   In looking around, we may see this as a near hopeless endeavor.  How can the changing of my own views and interactions within my family make any difference in the culture at large?  In reflecting on that question, I recall a statement from Cloud Atlas in which the 19th century abolitionist says, “[my] life amounts to no more than one drop in a limitless ocean. Yet what is any ocean, but a multitude of drops?” (Mitchell, 528)  It is with this attitude that we can assuredly make changes in our lives knowing that every turn toward the good results in one more drop in the ocean of holiness we are called to.  



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Friday, March 13, 2015

Los Angeles Religious Education Congress Day 1 Reflections

Today I had the opportunity to go to the annual Los Angeles Religious Education Congress at the Anaheim Convention Center.   I wasn't the only one! It was very crowded and full of people seeking out ways of growing their faith and the faith of those around them.



The first lecture I went to was by Rabbi Michael Lokter speaking on the topic "What every serious Christian should know about Judaism".  I found his lecture very interesting and informative and was able to purchase his book A Christian's Guide to Judaism.  If the book is half as good as his lecture it will be an excellent read.   I think so often that we as Christians take for granted Jewish beliefs.  We read the Old Testament and get some basic instruction on what "Jewish Practice" was like before Christ and we scratch our heads wondering why the Jews missed Jesus as the Messiah.

Rabbi Lokter did a great job explaining to us why that is and it seems to ultimately come down to two ideas.  First, who God is and Second who the Messiah is.  Apparently both of these questions are not satisfactorily or even coherently answered by Christianity in the Jewish mind. I also learned that while Christianity is interested primarily with the afterlife,  Judaism is interested primarily with what we have here on earth now and what we are to do to better the world around us for God.   The afterlife in Judaism is not focused on much.    Differences like this, once understood, can really lead to some fruitful discussions between our faith traditions, and is far better than understanding a mere caricature of each other.

The second lecture I attended was by Fr. Joe Kempf speaking on the topic "What do you See in the Mirror".   I was able to first hear Fr. Joe speak last year about the Sacrament of Reconciliation and I was very impressed with his pastoral nature and this lecture today did not disappoint either.   Fr. Joe has a "pal" named Big Al that is a puppet he uses to teach children and make children's videos with.  Apparently he has been doing this for some time as everyone seems to know all about it.   Since I was a convert just last year to Catholicism I had no idea who this "Big Al" was and it was pretty comical to see all the middle aged folks get so excited to see Big Al and take pictures of him! The little I saw of Big Al and Fr Joe though makes it clear why people love him so much, he touches on heart issues and real world struggles and helps people figure out how to get through the hard times of life and how much God loves us.   I picked up a book and DVD and am hoping to introduce my own kids to Big Al now!

My third workshop was a sobering one related to the atrocities of human trafficking.  Theresa Flores spoke about her own experience being trafficked as a teenager and has written a book of her story titled "The Slave Across the Street".  Theresa gave a lot of statistics and examples, but the biggest thing I think to take away was that Trafficking can happen to anyone anywhere and recognizing when someone may need help (even if they don't ask or admit it) is key to helping people gain freedom from their traffickers.

The day closed out with a choice of masses and I attended the "Black Culture Liturgy".  It was a beautiful mass and the priest gave a wonderful homily about loving others even when they don't love us back or when it is difficult.   I was lucky enough to sit next to a group of religious brothers from Hawaii and they were super friendly and we had a good time.   I think if they had an extra habit and ticket to Hawaii, they may have offered it to me......maybe I would have accepted!

As happened last year,  I now have a huge pile of books from the exposition floor to get through over the next few months!

I am very excited for tomorrow and the insights and faith formation to be gained by the lectures and liturgies tomorrow.  Pastor Rick Warren of Saddleback Church will be giving the keynote and so I am very excited to hear from someone of my former tradition as an Evangelical speak to this huge Catholic audience.








Monday, September 22, 2014

The Sacrament of Reconciliation (Confession)

When we talk about the confessional, it seems that people immediately get scared and nervous.  The idea of telling someone the skeletons in your closet is terrifying to most people.    Why is this?  Ultimately it comes down to shame and judgement.  Shame for what we have done, and the associated embarrassment, and the fear of judgement from others.....the strange looks, the second thoughts, perhaps the severing of a relationship.  



Thankfully, God does not respond to our sin, the way people around us might.   He loves us and pours out his grace upon us.   He suffered for us on the cross and he bore the weight of all of our shortcomings.   Sharing our shortcomings with God is something he wants from us, he wants to help us and he wants to bring us through the darkness into the light. 

So why is the confessional so scary?  It shouldn't be.  It is a place where we can meet God and hear the words of forgiveness said to us.  That someone representing God and the Church is there and hears what we have done and tells us that we are forgiven no matter what.  The sin is gone, it is erased.   Someone is there to anonymously hear what we need to get out, what is bottled up, what is burdening us, and that same person to tell us it is ok to let the burden of sin go, to let Christ take it for us. 

As a protestant, I was no stranger to asking God for forgiveness.  I did it plenty in prayer, but there was something lacking, something I could not ever put my finger on, but present none the less.  It was  a burden that I continued to carry.  My sins, though asked for forgiveness for, still bore weight on me.  I knew God forgave me, but I could not fully release the burden that the sin had placed on me.  Small sins, bigger sins, no matter, there was a burden.   

I appreciated the idea of the Confessional, there was something that seemed right about it.  I was still nervous going in, but it was the most amazing experience I have ever had.   I went into the confessional, burdened and came out freed.   Hearing the words of absolution brought tears to my eyes,  I experienced first hand the Divine Mercy of Christ.  It was so real you could feel it.  I felt like I walked a few feet taller after that.   

In my journey to the Catholic Faith, I did a lot of study, read a lot of information, talked to a lot of people.  I was convinced of the Catholic Faith, intellectually.   Everything I learned, all the apologetics, all the arguments, were mere dust compared to how real the experience of the Sacrament of Reconciliation was.  God's mercy was felt,  His grace received, and it was clear that God works and acts through his church.  

There is something very therapeutic for the soul about going to confession.   It forces you to search yourself, acknowledge your sin, and strive to change.   It is far too easy for us to condone bad behavior in ourselves, or justify wrongdoing.   It is far to easy to bottle things up and not really deal with them.  Confession counters those problems in a real way.   

Confession reconciles us with God, by coming to him with our sin and asking forgiveness.  God works through the priest in this by assuring us of our forgiveness in the provision of absolution and by using the priest to offer us ways to reconcile the damage done by our sins in penance.  Ways to help us heal our soul from the damage that has been done to it by our sin.  

Confession also reconciles us to the Church.  It returns us from a wayward sheep back into the flock.   This was seen from the earliest times when they used to have public confessions before the whole church!  While a motivator to keep the narrow path, I imagine people began to hide their sins a bit to avoid the public confession and the private confessional developed to meet such  a pastoral need. 


For those that are uncertain of the basis of confession in the Bible,  I can post a couple verses here.

John 20:21-23

 Again Jesus said, “Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me, I am sending you.” 22 And with that he breathed on them and said, “Receive the Holy Spirit. 23 If you forgive anyone’s sins, their sins are forgiven; if you do not forgive them, they are not forgiven.”

This shows that Jesus commissioned the Apostles to go out and hear sins and forgive them if the people were sorry, or not forgive them if they weren't . This authority was handed on as the Apostles handed on their office through the ages to the Bishops of today.

James 5:13-16

Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise.14 Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. 15 And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. 16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

I really love this verse 16.  In my previous evangelical upbringing the idea of confessing sins to another person would have been very outlandish.   There was no reason for it and no one ever did it.   Certainly not to the pastors or elders outside of perhaps some sort of counseling type of situation.  I like how this section of verses describes calling the elders to you and asking them to pray for you.  That their prayer is powerful and effective and that you should confess your sins to these elders.   This is what is done in the Confessional (this section also describes "Last Rites"). 

I have been wanting to do a post on Confession for a while due to my really amazing experience with it, but I hadn't formulated enough ideas for it, or taken the time to right it all down.   Our Parish priest spoke to the RCIA class this last week on this topic and it sort of rekindled the flame.  

  Sometimes we are so critical with ourselves that we convince ourselves that God can't or won't forgive us.  This is nothing but Satan lying to us.  The God who brought forth the Universe from nothing, can most certainly forgive any pitiful sin we commit.   

I also want to point out that the Confessional is a great tool for our own sanctification, something we can all say that we strive for.  We should always want to grow in Christian holiness.  Going to the confessional regularly is a great way to do that.  It is a way for us to really examine ourselves and report our faults.  A time to grow in prayer and receiving God's Grace.   The popes have gone to confessional quite frequently.....every week or two. They do this as both an example to us, and to form their consciences and humble themselves before God.   It is important for them, and it is important for us for the same reasons. 

So what are you waiting for?  

Go and lay down your burdens today!